How To Stand Out In a Crowd By Being Considerate

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Feb122010

I’ve always found that inconsiderate people stand out in a crowd, quite the same way that considerate people do. Of course, the later is a much more positive way to get noticed if you ask me.

In the whirlwind, busy, stressful world we live in, I don't even think that most people realize that they are being insensitive at times. It may just be that they are trying to get through their day and aren't really being conscious of actually TRYING to be considerate. Pause for a moment to think about three things:

1) How simple it is to be cognizant of others' feelings
2) How great it makes you feel when someone does just that towards you
3) How wonderful YOU feel when you bring some happiness to another's day

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Aren't you sometimes taken aback when a stranger goes out of their way to smile, or say something nice, or just be mindful of your presence? It's such a simple concept, yet not adhered to as often as it could be.

To put this principle into action, here is a short list of things you can do to get started:

Try to be more mindful of others wherever you go.

Offer a smile or nice word when you have the opportunity.

Hold the door open for someone.

Let a car go ahead of you in traffic.

Lend an ear to listen when someone needs to talk.

Leave a random, kind message on a social networking site or blog.

Help a family member or co-worker clean up their room or office without being asked.

Ask someone how the day is treating them.

Send a thank you card or email when someone least expects it.

Basically, just be kind, respectful, and aware of those around you. It seems so trivial, but believe me, the consequences can be substantial.

Making an effort and being mindful of others will benefit not only the person you are showing compassion towards, but will have positive effects on your own life as well. Kindness is contagious, I tell ya.

Friday, February 12, 2010 at 9:14AM | |

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Reader Comments (13)

Thank you so much for this! I agree; it is such a surprise sometimes when a stranger is kind. Some days it is so tiring how rude and unkind people are. But, that single moment when a stranger smiles, holds a door, says "cute hair", or whatever touch of kindness makes all the difference in the world. You, my dear, are a ray of sunshine in so many lives. Have a wonderful day!

February 12, 2010 |

Beth

i love the way you think!!

February 12, 2010 |

Luis

Jinxi! This is exactly how I feel. It only takes a second to think of someone else.

February 12, 2010 |

Kelly

I LOVE IT!!!!!!!!!!!! There are soooooo many ignorant and inconsiderate people in our world today...and we can smell them a mile away!!!!!!!!!

February 12, 2010 |

Richard

My favorite considerate thing to do is to let someone cross the street. I'm in a car and I'm blasting heat/air conditioning and they're outside! Plus, you get the pedestrian hand wave, which I absolutely love! Definitely good things to keep in mind throughout your day. Great post!

February 12, 2010 |

I love going places with you Jinxi, you make a new friend everyplace we go. Great post Jinxi. Lots of love and respect to you.

February 12, 2010 |

Steve

I totally agree with this!!!! Consideration goes a long way and builds wonderful relationships.It attracts those individuals within your life that will be everlasting and good for your soul. Good comment Jinxi!

February 12, 2010 |

Toni

i feel so proud of myself that i actually 'do' do this stuff =]

February 12, 2010 |

jktattooist

Today at work customers were *very* cranky. It's the Valentines Day rush and we are running low on product, making them even more cranky. I always smile at work and offer my best to everyone i help. Within 2 hours of work, I was told twice by different customers how to perform my job. It's very irritating, especially since I was trying to be polite with them from the beginning. A few hours later, I was chatting with a customer and her daughter and at the end of our transaction she told me "You have a very nice personality" I smiled big and thanked her- this completely lifted my spirits and made me not take the day's earlier events so hard. An hour later, I was told by 2 other ladies I was nice. Saying a kind word to a stranger really does go a long way!

February 13, 2010 |

Chelsie

Once again, you have illustrated one of the things I absolutely love about you Jinxi. You are always trying so hard to make the world a better place, but you do so without even the hint of an agenda.

It is funny that here in TX you can sometimes very nearly get into a scuffle over who gets to hold the door open for who. I have often raced a friend or girlfriend to a door and felt great pride in my victory when I got there first and was able to open the door for them. =)

YaY-
Shay

February 13, 2010 |

Shay

i try to do exactly all this, the more effort you put into trying the less you have to try and it will just come naturally. i swear there is no better feeling than making someone else just smile. oh and i so absolutely love the sunflower you used for this, that seriously made me smile for so many reasons. love ya tons xo

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