Donna
I lost one of my best friends yesterday to cancer. I really can't believe it still. It doesn't seem real and it is much more painful than I thought it would be.
I met Donna twelve years ago, through eBay of all places. I bought an item from her and we exchanged pleasantries, hit it off, and eventually ended up working together for the next decade. But it was much more than work that kept us bonded. We talked almost every day since 1999 via email, since we lived more than 2,500 miles apart. She loved my family and I love hers. Donna was nearly 25 years my senior, but you would never have known it the way we related to each other in so many aspects of life. Although we never met in person, I feel like I know her as if she were my next door neighbor, after talking on the phone and after writing more emails to her than anyone else I have ever corresponded with.
She was just a daily part of my life and I can't believe she is gone.
She had beaten cancer already, but it came back. She was strong and determined to the end. She was funny and witty; and kept an amazingly positive attitude throughout. Sadly, an excruciating battle this time around ended yesterday.
Donna taught me so many lessons that I hardly know where to begin.
She taught me the beauty of benevolence.
She taught me the importance of hard work.
She taught me that nothing is more important than appreciating the time you spend with your family... nothing.
She taught me strength and perseverance.
She taught me to enjoy time with your spouse and the importance of loving each other.
She taught me to appreciate the little things.
She taught me how important a little note of love and thoughtfulness can be.
She taught me how to be a better friend.
Things just won't be the same without seeing her name in my mailbox. Without her notes and updates; her jokes and her love. I don't think I ever realized how hard it would be until now that it's a reality.
I am so grateful that I got to have her in my life. I loved her so much and I will miss her more than I know how to put into words. I will just really, really miss her.
Friday, June 18, 2010 at 9:51AM
Reader Comments (25)
Jinxi, I am so sorry to hear about Donna :(.
I am so glad that you both got to know eachother so well and that you got to enjoy such a strong friendship. People like Donna are the best kinds of friends to have. I know she must have really cherished your sunshine and friendship as well.
What beautiful and important lessons she taught you :) She sounds like such an amazing person!
Thank you for sharing this with us, Jinxi doll! Love you!
Much love Jinxi. You'll both be in my thoughts and heart.
so sorry for your loss Jinxi..
So sorry to hear that, may she rest in peace
Sending plenty of love your way Jinxi xxx
sorry for your loss jinxi...big hugs to you
Sorry for your loss, Jinxi. Lots of love and hugs! ♥
Im sorry Jinxi - wishing you love and peace
That's awful Jinxi. I'm so sorry sweetie. Losing people we love is so unfair. I wish for you comfort in this difficult time.
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thoughts with you n her family..x
I'm so sorry for your loss love. I'm here for you if you need anything. As always you're in my thoughts xoxo
What a special person. Sorry for your loss, Jinxi.
I'm going to quote you on this one:
“Tears are words the heart can’t express.” - so true.
Sorry.
I'm sorry to hear you lost someone so special. Sounds like she's still and will forever be in your heart. My thoughts and love go out to you. <3
So sorry to hear about your friend Jinxi! My thoughts n hugs go out to you lady!!
I am sorry for the loss of your friend, but it looks like you will keep her with you always in spirit. I love that quote at the end - so true.
sorry for ur loss...shes in a better place just waiting ..havin a good ol time now that shes free from the pain....shining with all the love...thats around her ...were all here 4 ya.....u got a speacial place in my heart....much love and respect...love u gurl...oxoxo
I'm so sorry for your Loss Jinxi, I lost my Grandma to cancer when I was 15, it's a horrible disease that takes the best of us. My thoughts and prayers to you, your friend and the family.. Much Love...
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I lost my dad May 3, to small cell lung cancer, and it's still like.WTF just happened?
I'm so sorry, Jinxi. My dad has cancer and is fighting it now.
sending you lots of love jinxi xx
I am so sorry to hear that Jinxi. If there is anything I can do please please let me know. My thoughts will be with you.
Oh hun I am so sorry.....